Publisher's Synopsis
At first glance, many assume that Stop Asking Me Why Am I Single is a proclamation to the world from the frustrations of constantly being asked the same question. While this book is a proclamation, it is not one to the world but rather one from God. In my frustrations of being single and being asked by so many why I was still single, I posed that same question to God. His response was the inspiration for the book title as well as the eight chapters that encompassed the book. God does not want us to question his plans for our journey rather He expects us to trust Him and walk in them. Singleness is a journey that all must go through. But as I have learned "Frustration is a result of trying to do something in your own strength that only God can do." Only God can provide a suitable mate and will do so in His perfect timing. As Christians we can sulk and complain, in hopes to speed up the process or in my case, in hopes that God will finally give in and give me what I want. This brings me to another lesson, "God does not do anything out of season." Therefore we must choose whether to go through with joy or with anguish. Stop asking me why am I single is my journey through the frustrations of singleness into true happiness and the joy of the Lord. This book is not a complete guide, it is merely the beginning or the opening of the door to acknowledge and do the work that is required. It is intended for single Christians, male and female, who desire a mate and have let that desire consume their very being and hinder their relationship with God. It is also intended for Christians, who desire anything from the Lord and have become frustrated or their heart has hardened in the wait. In each chapter I offer transparency into my struggles and afflictions of the past and present, as well as how I overcame, with the help of God. Each chapter represents deliverance from a particular area in my life. While writing this book, God led me to study four books of the bible: John, Romans, Ephesians and Matthew. Therefore the book is filled with prophetic revelations revealed by the Holy Spirit as I studied these books. This book also contains revelations from pastors, prophets, prophetesses, ministers, etc. through sermons and personal words of encouragement I have heard and received.
