Publisher's Synopsis
She Didn't Marry a Child, and He Didn't Marry His Boss is not your average marriage book. It's a hard-hitting, Scripture-backed demolition of the modern relationship model and a return to God's original blueprint for husbands, wives, courtship, and covenant.
This book doesn't tiptoe around cultural sensitivities-it confronts them head-on. In a time when men are feminized, women are glorified, and marriage is reduced to lifestyle branding, author A.A. Castor calls for a bold return to biblical order. From courtship to covenant, from headship to helpership, this book breaks down what Christian marriage was meant to be-not what the world has turned it into.
Each chapter dives deep into the chaos of cultural compromise, dismantling myths like:
- "Dating is harmless."
- "Submission is slavery."
- "Children are a burden."
- "Fathers are optional."
- "A woman must lead if a man won't."
- "Marriage is about happiness, not holiness."
This book outlines how:
- Boys want girlfriends, but men build legacies.
- Wives are designed to help, not compete.
- God's order isn't oppressive-it's divine warfare against dysfunction.
- Marriage isn't a lifestyle choice-it's a gospel message made visible.
If you're tired of marriages that look good online but collapse in private...
If you want a union that heaven honors, hell fears, and your children can stand on...
If you believe marriage is more than a bed and bills-it's a calling...
Then this book was written for you.
Whether you're single, courting, newlywed, or decades deep, She Didn't Marry a Child, and He Didn't Marry His Boss will challenge everything you thought you knew about Christian relationships-and set your heart on fire to build a house that lasts.