Publisher's Synopsis
You desire a great marriage. You've prayed for it. You've cried about it. You've begged for it. But, are you willing to work for it? Marriage Ain't for Punks will help you to examine your mess (your relationship-repellent attitudes, behaviors and characteristics) and give you practical steps to become the YOU that you'd want to come home to. Before we look at your stuff, let's take a quick peek into Debra's mess. Gerald is what women call: fine, built, a stud. At least that's what Debra thought when she first noticed him in the conference room at her job. Debra soon learned that Gerald was a consultant with his own law firm. She had just broken up with her boyfriend after catching him kissing a "colleague" and knew that her ex would go crazy if he saw Debra with Gerald...HANDSOME, INTELLIGENT, and SUCCESSFUL. Yes! Gerald was the one...The little game didn't stop with infuriating her ex. Debra loved the way that other women would look at her with envy when she and Gerald were together...FAST FORWARD 5 YEARS...Debra and Gerald have been married for 3 1/2 years, but they have very little in common. their sex life was explosive in the beginning, but even it has fizzled... DEBRA IS A PUNK THAT MARRIED FOR ALL THE WRONG REASONS Is a great marriage possible today? Can you still grow old together with the one you love? Is peaceful co-existence the best that you have to look forward to after saying, "I Do"? Many are skeptical and say that a good marriage isn't possible today. I say that a GREAT marriage is absolutely possible. And it starts with YOU! It starts with intentionally working on yourself. It's easy to look at Debra and her mess and all the ways that she went wrong in pursuing her relationship with Gerald, but are you willing to identify, acknowledge and tackle YOUR own mess head on? Marriage Ain't for Punks will help you to honestly examine your relationship-repellent attitudes, behaviors, and characteristics while giving you the tools to address your deepest, darkest mess. The author, Shar'ron Mason, adds just enough honey, through humor, enabling you to swallow and digest your reality while continuing to come back for more. Whether you're single and open to marriage some day, married and motivated to become the YOU that you'd want to come home to, or divorced and determined for a different outcome, Marriage Ain't for Punks has some rich nuggets to help you to build from where you're at.
