Publisher's Synopsis
Lola & Ola Abitogun of LolaAndOLA.com started dating in March of 2004. They fell in love and got married in August 2007. They are blessed with kids.After 10 years of ups and downs with a marriage that was basically non-existent for 2 full years, they've found real love at last, got their marriage back.They have also decided to use this medium to share how they did it so that anyone can use it to save and fix their broken marriage.LOLA & OLA are ready to fight the evil forces against your marriage with you using practical and actionable steps that you already have control of.All you need is someone to show you. Don't do it alone.In the first chapter, you will learn how to stop the bleeding immediately. You probably have no idea how far the damage has gone in your marriage. If you don't stop the bleeding immediately, you may never be able to re-attract your spouse and make them fall in love again.The 2nd chapter will show you how to not get into manipulation games. Manipulation won't work and it will set you up for failure. You will learn how to authentically attract the person you love back into a lifetime love affair, having raw crazy sex and never getting tired of each other ever again.On the 3rd chapter, you will learn how to choose the right meaning for everything that has been happening in your marriage. Truth is that bad things happen in everyone's life.The difference between the winners and losers in life is the meaning they attach to everything that happens. This will affect your ability to attract a healthy and happy marriage again.On the 4th chapter, you will discover how attraction played a major role in the break down and building up the marriage to this level. The concept of attraction in a marriage is more of an art than it is a science. It's not a "one size fits all" so you need to understand at a fundamental level.On the 5th chapter, you will discover a better alternative to the myth of "the one". Many married folks kill attraction in the marriage because of attachments which creates unattractive energy.On the 6th chapter, we will dive into the last chapter in the foundational section. If I could wrap the cause of most marriage failure into one word; it's 'attachment' .Then we will go into the 3rd section of the book where we will cover techniques to help you build a loving and happy marriage. It's not designed to become a "know it all." It's designed to position you for ongoing development and tools to equip you for crisis even before they manifest starting with chapter 7 which is about BUILDING YOUR REAL LOVE STORY.On the 8th chapter, we will dive into each of the 3 core pillars that you need to master in other to build a real story. Lola and I call them the G.P.S.On chapters 9,10 and 11, we will discuss the first, second and third pillars of a successful and happy marriage. You will discover clearly why so many marriages fall apart when they are not built on these pillars.On the 12th and last chapter, we will debunk all the crazy and ineffective myths you've learned about communication that's destroying marriages in the civilized age. We will also give you a befitting and effective replacement.This is a book that you will read over and over again while you recommend it for your friends and loved ones. We will definitely appreciate that because our goal is to get it in the hands of as many people as possible.Get you marriage back now.
