Publisher's Synopsis
A widow or widower's reactions to the dating process don't always follow the same patterns as those of people who are divorced or have never married. Surviving spouses may feel torn between honoring the memory of their deceased loved one and pursuing their happiness. They may wrestle with feelings of guilt - not only about being alive but for "cheating" on their spouse who has passed away.
Dating a widow or widower may take patience, a willingness to embrace the spouse who has died, and a commitment to step gingerly when it comes to introductions to friends and family. And it's not right for everyone. The result, though, can be a positive, successful bond.
Each chapter offers a detailed account of actual situations experienced by different women who are in love with a widower. In her tough, uncompromising style, the author provides thought-provoking perspectives on the questions that plague many women:
- Am I "Plan B"?
- How can I get his children or others to accept me?
- Was he happier with his late wife?
- When will he stop hiding our relationship from his friends and family?
- What can I do about people posting memories of the late wife on social media?
- Why can't he take down her photos?
- Does he miss her more than he loves me?
