Publisher's Synopsis
You love each other. But do you actually know how to build a life together?
What if the person you're marrying avoids hard conversations? What if you do? What happens when plans fall through, or values don't match as well as you thought they did? These questions don't mean something is wrong-they mean you're taking this seriously.
This workbook is for couples who want more than just a beautiful wedding. It's for couples who want to stop guessing and start preparing. Because marriage isn't built on feelings alone. It's built on what you say when you're frustrated. How you handle silence. What you do when your partner needs support, but you're running on empty.
Too many couples assume love will carry them through. Until the first fight about money. Until family drama starts interfering. Until one of you wants kids and the other isn't sure anymore. That's when "we're just different" turns into "we don't know how to talk anymore."
This book is where you work through the real stuff before it works against you.
You'll love this book because:
- It walks you through conversations about money, sex, roles, expectations, and values without pressure or awkward buildup
- It gives you reflection questions that lead to honest, eye-opening conversations-without turning every talk into a debate
- It shows you how to stay connected when life gets chaotic, not just when things are calm
- It includes prompts and phrases for when you're stuck or emotionally charged
- It helps you build a real partnership based on communication, not assumptions
Save countless hours learning how to:
- Talk about what matters-without shutting down, blowing up, or avoiding it altogether
- Handle conflict without turning it into a scorecard
- Support each other during stress, change, and uncertainty
- Keep your connection strong over time, especially when routines start pulling you apart
- Build a shared life that fits both of you, not just one of you
You don't have to figure everything out before the wedding, but you do need to be honest about where you stand and where you're willing to grow.
Whether you've been dating for a few months or a few years, this workbook gives you a way to slow down and take your relationship seriously-without feeling like you're walking into therapy.
If you're ready to stop hoping it all works out and start knowing what you're building-this is your starting point.